There are many responsibilities that one needs to take into consideration when it comes to parenting. Every child is unique in their own way, so each child's needs need to be handled differently. Even though parenting can be challenging, frustrating and extremely tiring, the reward will always be a higher achievement. It's safe to say that we've all heard a number of myths regarding parenting styles. A common myth/ineffective approach among parents/guardians/coaches is to blame a parent for their parenting styles when a child is aggressive. This idea usually arises in the situation where children are forced to share toys or do a certain task that they do not want to do. A common response to this situation for the parent/guardian is to use power assertion, give the child a time out, or be physically abusive. We've all heard the phrase, "why is your child so aggressive?" or “enroll your child in more sports teams so he can release his anger.” In some, aggression is a problem and is more difficult to control than in others. Aggression is a common problem for many children and if the problem is not addressed early, it will continue throughout adolescence and later in life. Teachers and parents need to think clearly and solve the problem constructively. It is not effective to resort to asserting power, giving a child time off, or being physically abusive. Furthermore, when such violent measures are involved, children should not be rewarded for bad behavior but should be taught a lesson so that they learn from their behaviors..
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