This is far, far away for her and so she will go as far as she has to, to get her lover back. Having obstacles in your life is part of what it means to grow up and poses many challenges that you can either find a way to overcome or get stuck with. In the poem, due to the obstacles faced by the narrator, the narrator did not make her give up her love for her husband. She continued to fight roadblocks to remain hopeful of seeing her husband again. Without obstacles you couldn't grow. All the obstacles you face are part of what it means to grow up, and obstacles are also what makes you