By losing his mother he learned not to take the people in his life for granted. He also learned from his parents that he didn't want to raise his children like them. Due to the lack of money he grew up with, he developed a hard-working attitude. He was determined not to maintain the life he knew for his children. My parents argue and argue but have never talked about separating or divorcing. My father suffered because of this and it caused a lot of stress and tension. This stress hindered school and education which ultimately blocked dreams. Even though my father was unable to finish college, he does everything he can so that his children can attend college and further their education. We may not understand the good that develops from difficulties at this time, but later in life we ​​will see the meaning they have. These events shape us into the people we are supposed to