Just as the brain allows us to see, smell, taste, think, speak and move, it is the organ that allows us to love - or not. The systems in the human brain that allow us to form and maintain emotional relationships develop during childhood and the early years of life. Experiences during this vulnerable early period of life are critical in shaping the ability to form intimate, emotionally healthy relationships. Empathy, caring, sharing, the inhibition of aggression, the capacity to love, and a host of other characteristics of a healthy, happy, productive person are linked to fundamental attachment skills that are formed in childhood and childhood. early life.