Calhoun, quoted in her book, 13 to 10% of adults commit infidelity, with 20% of couples in their forties being the highest figure. Once the unfaithful partner confesses his infinity, perhaps the marinade can be safe. The partner must admit their affairs if they want to stay married. They need to ask their partner for forgiveness to understand why they cheated. If they stay together, it's because both partners probably love each other, have children, or have finances. However, divorces for love, children or money continue to occur for many reasons. Other barriers could be religious beliefs that do not allow divorce. Religious faith can make a marriage stable with the help of a marriage counselor or church pastor. With these helpful interventions, marriages can become stronger and divorce is more likely not to occur. When people recognize the cause of infidelity, couples can grow closer. They recognize the symptom of the unhappiness of