They believe there is no solution and that the only way to get rid of the pain they feel is to take their own life. They may also feel embarrassed because their parents or family members don't accept what they are going through. Disappointing them can even lead them to suicide because they think that if their family members don't understand, no one will. Another sociological theory related to this topic is George Herbert Mead's "the self". People form this negative idea of ​​transgenders because in the “self” we take into consideration the opinions of others. For example, even at a young age, transgender children are bullied even by their own peers because they behave differently. These bully children learn from their parents or society what is considered normal and what is normal