Communication is the key to understanding personal values. By understanding the other person, you can get a clear picture of where the relationship is going. You also have to be true to yourself. If the differences of opinion are too radical, it might be best to call it off before it gets too serious. We must never compromise our most important values. Don't go into it under the assumption that your partner will agree to change just for you. We need something more than love to keep us together. Unconditional love should exist in all marriages, but in reality it doesn't. When the gap is not too big, do your best to please him. You will receive rewards beyond measure, as long as your partner's love is real. I don't know anyone who doesn't appreciate seeing a loved one make an effort to do so