The list starts with number ten and appears to be in descending order, i.e. number ten is good, number five would be better, and number one is best. At the top of the list is blindfolding her; thus providing your other senses with better awareness and, in turn, providing you with a better sexual experience. Giving her instructions is number nine. This doesn't necessarily mean telling her what to do, but learning what works and what doesn't work in sexual intercourse. One of the most relaxing and also most sexual things you can do for your partner is to give them a sensual massage (Leigh), and with this information, massage is number eight. The seventh consists of making her dress up and act or pretend to be someone, or something, different (role play). Sharing fantasies with her is number six; using imagination and “keeping it sexy” (Leigh) is a fun game that can increase sexuality