From our initial interaction to a real and ideal dialectic, a long-lasting and effective communicative relationship was born. In hindsight, every moment of difficulty in our relationship was resolved by reducing uncertainty (finding out what I did wrong), social exchange (the cost of being right is more valuable than peace), social penetration (taking the time to understand what went wrong) ) and relational dialectics (knowing you are right but letting her win the argument even if I am right). My conclusion may be playful in tone, but relevant to understanding relational communications. Successful interpersonal communication is not the result of the implementation of a single theory but of the intentional use and recognition of multiple theories toward message delivery and the appropriate assignment of